Christian Love

What is Christian love?

1 Corinthians 13:4-7

4 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant 5 or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;[a] 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

I think in our society we have reduced Jesus to this quiet passive guy that never made waves or had opinions because we view love as just getting along and letting people do what makes them happy and if you love them you will care about their happiness and support the things that make them feel happy.  

A group of us were having a great discussion about "the personality of Jesus" the other day.  We were reminded how many times in the Bible he said things that could have been viewed as completely offensive.  He was harsh and bold and honestly very unconcerned with people's "happy feelings" in this temporary life.  He was much more concerned with their eternity and their love and devotions to Him. He didn't seem to care as much about hurting people's feelings, He told them what they needed to hear and He didn't beat around the bush about it.

Matthew 10:34-39

Not Peace, but a Sword

34 “Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring peace, but a sword. 35 For I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. 36 And a person's enemies will be those of his own household. 37 Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. 38 And whoever does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me.39 Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.

People are afraid of this kind of love because it is risky. 

 And you risk being called a "hypocrite or judgmental" if you claim to be a christian and aren't perfect. 

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NONE OF US WILL BE PERFECT THIS SIDE OF HEAVEN, BUT THAT SHOULD NOT ALLOW US TO QUIT.

Hebrews 12:1-2

12 Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, 2 looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.

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People love to throw the verse about "judging" around for the sake of getting you to turn your head and go along with everything that makes them feel happy in the moment.

Matthew 7:1-5English Standard Version (ESV)

Judging Others

7 “Judge not, that you be not judged. 2 For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. 3 Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? 4 Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye.

I am no Bible scholar, but when I read this...it doesn't say...

how about since your brother has a speck and you have a log....just ignore it all and move on. 

It says deal with your "stuff" so you can help your brother deal with his.  And the beauty of it is, when you deal with your "stuff".....you then can help your brother....not just point out his speck, but you are humbled up knowing that you just removed a log from your own eye and you actually want to help him, not just pretend it isn't there or just point it out.

This has been on my heart and mind for a while now.....we are dealing with a situation and getting differing input on how we should or shouldn't handle it.
  I just keep asking God because that's the only REAL TRUTH.

 I still don't have the ABC formula that I would love for Him to lay out in this situation and so many others....but instead...He makes things jump out at me when I'm in His Word.

 What I'm hearing right now is:

 Just be quiet, and don't go along for the sake of

 just getting along and keeping the peace, but also don't stir up strife.

Also,

 don't be attacking specks until we can see clearly and we can move in close enough to look one another in the eye.