Romans 12:2

Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

Friday, September 13, 2019

Defining "Terms"


I have read and listened about how short-term missions are bad – no, they are good and often lead to long-term. Long – term missions are the way to GO, as long as it’s not too long and burnout happens.  How do we even define long and short – term, I mean, oftentimes short-term missions is a long-term relationship and you go back so many times.  I have read and experienced that adoption is good, it makes a family, no, it tears families apart.  Ministry is good, energizing and gives purpose; no it’s bad and painful and wears a person out.
I can find articles and data to support and criticize all of it, no matter which way or how far you GO or don’t GO. 

  

Here’s my point:
There is no formula!  There is only the greatest and second greatest commandment! 

Matthew 22:37-39  (NLT)

37 Jesus replied, “‘You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.’ 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 A second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’


If what we are doing and where we are going helps us to live the greatest commandment in a bigger and better way, we are doing it right whatever the "terms".



 The only "term" is Love God and Love People.

In all this loving we are doing we only have to remember that Jesus has ONE Bride, ONE Body, ONE Church (which is all the same thing said in different ways).
Kinda like Charlie calls me wife, girlfriend, and mother of his children.
Jesus is not a polygamist, He loves His bride and He works within that relationship.

Whatever that looks like for each person might look a bit different,  different body parts have different functions, but I’ve never known a liver to function outside the body, and I’ve never seen a wedding celebration without the Bride.  So whether we are part of a home church or megachurch or anything in between God invites us into the Greatest Commandment thru that relationship.
He loves His Bride, even if we don’t.  He won’t put up with us trying to get around His Bride. 
The last thing we want to do as Jesus followers is to disrespect His Bride.  I don’t think we want to face any loving and protective groom if we don’t think his bride is beautiful, let alone assuming we will show up to the wedding feast of the Great I AM having no regard for His Bride. 

Our trips to Uganda have come at a high price, and so has raising our family, and so has loving our neighbor. It’s always costly to live in this world and follow Jesus.  Love is costly,  and we have gotten out of  it, exactly what Jesus told us we would:


Mark 10:28-30 (NLT)

28 Then Peter began to speak up. “We’ve given up everything to follow you,” he said.
29 “Yes,” Jesus replied, “and I assure you that everyone who has given up house or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or property, for my sake and for the Good News, 30 will receive now in return a hundred times as many houses, brothers, sisters, mothers, children, and property—along with persecution. And in the world to come that person will have eternal life.


  We have received more than we could ever ever ever give! It's beyond humbling what we have received in this pursuit of following Jesus and living in LOVE!


Loving God and loving people is a  vicious victorious cycle that gains ground and momentum as it GOes along.

We could never replace the relationships we have gained with all the money or all the fame in all the world.  I would do it all over again, only sooner and give more and go further and more often, not for promotion or for a ministry, but as an honor to be part of the Body; as a Bride who loves God and loves people in that order. 


Nobody is good except the God who is ALL GOOD ALL THE TIME takes over lives that are surrendered to HIM and works in HIS BODY, makes HIS BRIDE beautiful and does really GOOD work.

Let’s roll on, gaining ground and momentum for the Kingdom everywhere we have the privilege of stepping foot or landing!


Saturday, September 7, 2019

Loving Our Ugandan Neighbors As Ourselves



One of the things I think us Americans are super duper good at is loving ourselves.
 We like good food, nice clothes, great entertainment and self-care from head to toe.
We post about all these things; we are so “blessed” when we use them that we
 “share” with others.
 (at least of social media)
So when I think about the most important commandments according to Jesus, I think we could be really good at the second part if we "share" in real life as well as we "share" on social media.


Mark 12:29-31 New Living Translation (NLT)

29 Jesus replied, “The most important commandment is this: ‘Listen, O Israel! The Lord our God is the one and only Lord. 30 And you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your mind, and all your strength.’ 31 The second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ No other commandment is greater than these.” 

 Loving the Lord our God with everything in us….and the second is equally as important, but we must keep it in order. 
Loving God FIRST and then loving our neighbor as ourselves.

Out of the FIRST command will come the SECOND.
If we get the order wrong we just spin our wheels and it fizzles out and goes no-where.
If we keep the Greatest Command in order then it flows in a beautiful and natural way.

So how do we love our neighbors as ourselves…..

If I like something, I bet my neighbors would too.
I like clothes, and good food, and good books, and nice products for my skin and health.
I like shoes and I like purses.
I like Advil when I have a headache and I like cupcakes when I have an occasion to celebrate.
These are a few of our favorite things.
The theme of our donation boxes this GO around is to just love our neighbors as ourselves.
If we like it, so will our Ugandan neighbors.
We are taking things like bacon and jerky and candy and chocolate (for Patience) and clothes and vitamins and essential oils, sunglasses and allergy medicine.

So if there is something you enjoy to love yourself with, and want to love your Ugandan neighbors as yourself, you are welcome to send with us.
This was an extreme case!  God filled up 2 containers a few years ago.

God always fills our vessels boxes to overflowing.
I can’t wait to see what He sends us with to love our neighbors as ourselves.

Thursday, September 5, 2019

Uganda - Team Zero Countdown!


We leave for Uganda in 40 days!

One of the best parts of going on these mission trips is seeing who God puts together.
He has put together an interesting combination this time:

Team Zero

Kristy and I were joking one day that we feel we have zero to offer anyone, but we are so excited to GO.
The more we talked about it, the more accurate that name became.

We have ZERO in common and ZERO to offer.
We are:
Zealous Eager children Responding to the love of Our 
Father

We have ZERO to offer.  We come with no special skills or projects on this trip, but we have everything to give because of what has been given to us.

The funny thing about this particular team that God put together is we have ZERO in common.  We have the same Father and that makes us have everything LIFE-GIVING in common.  This team represents a lot of different LIFE experiences, yet only represents 
THE ONE TRUTH LIFE.

Charlie and I are the only ones from this team that have been to Uganda before.
We are excited to go together, even if we are meeting up and parting ways in Amsterdam. 
As ya’ll know we have a zillion kids and we live in 2 different states at the moment or for the last 15 months and it’s always a full-on circus in our lives.  I can assure you we need this time Team Zero and all that it has to offer more than anyone.

Greg and Kristy are married and have no kids(yet) but they have hearts and houses and lives full of all kinds of kids of every age, from all kinds of backgrounds (including our circus).  Greg is very quiet with a head and face full of amazing hair and deep thoughts and words that I beg him to share more openly and more often.
Kristy is one of the most sincere and honest people on the planet, and she takes the time to connect with people at a heart level and nothing less.

Their lives are the exact opposite of our circus and we have ZERO in common and one of the best friendships a person or couple or church (or circus) could ever ask for.
Christina is my dear friend that I got to know and love along with a few of her family members on our Israel trip.
 She is kind and generous and brilliant. She has been a life-saver for me in my lonely times in Montana.  Christina is spontaneous, energetic and full of lively conversation. 
Christina is a widow and a mother and a grandmother and a daughter and so much more.
Tayla is a single sweetheart.  This girl has a heart and a laugh the size of Africa. 
When she says
 “yes”
she means it, and walks with courage and wisdom beyond her years and has a youthful joy and spunk in every step she takes.

This is our team!
Team Zero

Every person on this team has a very different story; we have ZERO in common which equals EVERYTHING 
that is
LIFE-GIVING.